In a media landscape often divided by age and experience, a grandmother-granddaughter duo from Florida is proving that some of the best advice on love and life transcends generations. Kim Murstein, 30, and her grandmother Gail Rudnick, 84, have become unlikely internet celebrities through their podcast Excuse My Grandma and a series of TikTok videos that blend sharp wit, unfiltered honesty, and old-school wisdom. Their message? There is no such thing as the perfect partner—but that doesn't mean you should settle for less than you deserve.
A Viral Sensation with a Timeless Message
Rudnick, affectionately known to her online followers as "Grandma Gail," has been described by Today.com as "TikTok's 80-year-old dating guru." Alongside her granddaughter, she doles out no-nonsense advice on dating, marriage, and family, tackling everything from red flags to the importance of self-respect. The duo's chemistry is undeniable: Gail's sharp, often hilarious observations are balanced by Kim's modern perspective, creating a dynamic that resonates with viewers of all ages.
The pair's rise to fame began with the Excuse My Grandma podcast, which has since spawned a TikTok account with millions of followers. Their videos feature candid conversations about relationships, often with Gail delivering punchy one-liners that go viral. In one widely shared clip, Gail declares, "There's no such thing as the perfect partner. You're looking for someone whose flaws you can live with." The comment struck a chord, sparking debates in comment sections across the internet.
Part of a Bigger Conversation on Success and Happiness
Their digital fame caught the attention of CNBC Make It, which recently featured the duo as part of a special series commemorating the United States' 250th year. The series brings together notable voices in politics, finance, and relationships across age ranges to discuss what it means to achieve happiness and success in America today. In the segment, Kim and Gail sat down for an intergenerational conversation that explored how values around love and ambition have shifted—and what remains timeless.
As CNBC notes, "To recognize the country's 250th year, CNBC Make It got notable voices in politics, finance and relationships across age ranges to sit down and spark conversation about what it means to achieve happiness and success in this country today." The inclusion of Kim and Gail highlights the importance of relational wisdom in the broader definition of prosperity.
From Banking to Bubble Tea: The Series' Diverse Voices
The CNBC Make It series is not limited to relationship advice. It also features a wide range of stories from entrepreneurs and self-made millionaires, offering a kaleidoscope of perspectives on the American Dream. Other segments include a self-made millionaire and an investing CEO discussing money and power, a former banker who quit finance to build a global bubble tea empire generating over $500 million a year, and a home cook earning $129,000 a year making "Gucci" pasta from her kitchen. There's also the story of a former Navy SEAL commander sharing lessons on discipline and early rising, and founders behind billion-dollar brands like Vita Coco, On Running shoes, and Liquid Death water.
From the opulent (a tour of Jackie Kennedy and Aristotle Onassis' former yacht at $627,505 a week) to the practical (a 95-square-foot NYC apartment renting for $1,100 a month), the series captures a spectrum of lifestyles and definitions of success. What ties these stories together is the common thread of determination, adaptability, and a clear sense of purpose—qualities that Kim and Gail embody in their own intergenerational partnership.
Media Coverage and Public Reception
The duo's widespread appeal has not gone unnoticed. Fox News Video showcased them under the headline "Meet the family duo going viral on TikTok for sharing dating advice," while Upworthy praised the pair for giving "the best and on-point dating tips." Palm Beach Illustrated, a regional publication, ran a profile titled "Meet the Women of Excuse My Grandma," celebrating their roots in the Palm Beach community and their influence beyond it.
Their story has also been covered by MSN, which syndicated CNBC's original feature, and Today.com, which highlighted Gail's age-defying relevance. Each outlet frames the narrative slightly differently: some emphasize the novelty of an octogenarian influencer, while others focus on the timeless wisdom delivered through a modern medium. But all agree that the duo's success is a testament to the power of authentic connection.
The Secret to Their Success: Honesty and Humor
In interviews, Kim and Gail attribute their appeal to a simple formula: tell the truth, make it funny, and never talk down to your audience. Gail, a former businesswoman and mother of three, brings a lifetime of experience to every answer. Kim, who launched the podcast to capture her grandmother's insights before they were lost, says she learned early on that "Grandma Gail says things other people are too polite to say."
"There's no such thing as the perfect partner," Gail said in a recent TikTok video. "You're looking for someone whose flaws you can live with. That's the real secret."
That message appears to be exactly what audiences need to hear. In a time when dating apps and social media have created endless options and curated personas, Gail's grounded advice is a refreshing antidote. Her perspective is not just about romantic love—it extends to family dynamics, friendships, and self-worth.
Implications for the Future
The duo's success points to a broader cultural trend: a hunger for intergenerational dialogue. In an era of political and social divides, seeing a Gen Xer and a Boomer—or, in this case, a millennial and a member of the Greatest Generation—find common ground offers a hopeful model. Their podcast and TikTok feed have become safe spaces where listeners can explore thorny topics without judgment.
As America marks its 250th year, conversations about what makes life worth living are more relevant than ever. Kim and Gail Murstein remind us that while money, possessions, and career achievements often dominate the discourse, the relationships we build and the wisdom we pass down are just as vital. Whether they're giving dating advice to millions or simply laughing together on camera, they embody a definition of success that is both personal and shared.
For now, the duo shows no signs of slowing down. With a growing audience and a message that resonates across age groups, Kim and Gail are proof that some things never go out of style—like a grandmother's blunt truth and a granddaughter's willingness to listen.




